Mindful mindset
- Michèl Fois

- Nov 7
- 4 min read
Our mindset is intangible – yet it influences everything. It determines how we think, feel, act, and react to challenges. It's the inner filter through which we perceive the world – and simultaneously the software that makes our physical and mental "hardware" work. Within the framework of mindful fitness, we consider MINDSET the fifth aspect of our process: the conscious management of one's own thought and attitude patterns in order to navigate life with greater composure, self-efficacy, and resilience in the long term. We subdivide this aspect into optimistic realism , personal responsibility , resilience , and – as always – mindfulness .

Optimistic Realism
The foundation of a strong mindset is the attitude with which we view the world-
Optimistic realism means seeing things as they are – but also consciously perceiving the positive and seeking solutions instead of counting problems. We focus "towards something," not "away from something" (clever:Appetite orientation ). Not: "I want less stress" but "I want more peace and quiet." Not "I don't want to fail," but "I want to grow." This difference may seem small, but it changes the entire mindset – away from scarcity and towards possibility. This includes serenity through acceptance and humility . "Everything has its time"—the good as well as the difficult. This realization helps us to cope with the fluctuations of life. To approach life with calm. Those who accept that phases come and go are less likely to lose confidence in their own process. Another component of this realism is self-efficacy : the awareness that we can change something. When we understand-
When we realize that our actions make a difference, we develop confidence in our own ability to make a difference. Self-efficacy creates momentum – it connects realistic and
A positive assessment with optimism. But this requires clarity about one's own reserves.
Sourcing and resource management . Time, energy, and mental capacity – they are limited. A realistic view of this prevents burnout and keeps frustration at bay. Because those who know their limits can grow within them.

Personal responsibility
A stable mindset develops when we
take responsibility for our thoughts, feelings, and actions. Personal responsibility. This means not leaving control to external circumstances, but rather controlling the system.
to keep it in his own hands. The first-
The next step is authenticity – being honest with yourself, even when it's uncomfortable. An authentic person acts in accordance with their values and recognizes that development only comes from personal initiative.
This arises. This includes focusing on what is controllable . We can't influence everything – but we can choose how we react to it. Those who live responsibly prepare themselves for foreseeable and unforeseen events.
He anticipates foreseeable situations. He thinks in a solution-oriented way, remains flexible, and recognizes that self-care is not a luxury but a prerequisite for balance. This attitude creates a form of healthy self-interest – not withdrawal, but clarity about priorities. Because only those who remain true to themselves can be there for others in the long run.

Resilience
Resilience is the ability to withstand adversity encounter, without changing one's own course. She doesn't describe blocking, but- their flexibility: the art of bending, without breaking. Central to resilience is Rationality – the ability to think with distance to look at things. Not every situation demands an opinion, not every event.a n emotional reaction. Sometimes it is wiser to remain neutral instead of getting involved in af- emotionally charged debates or conflicts aim
Let it be. This neutral filter protects mental energy and preserves inner peace. Resilience also means setting priorities and protecting your mental working memory. You don't have to comment on everything, or take a stand on everything. Objectivity helps to distinguish between what's important and what's not – and to focus on what you can actually influence.
Another key to mental strength is manifestation – the conscious mental planning.
Orientation. What we repeatedly think shapes our actions. Those who focus their thoughts on
Clear communication translates into active influence on one's environment and reality. Through beKnowing language, clear intentions, and a constructive orientation transforms a mindset into one that
A tool for action. Resilience also arises through expectation management –
Both externally and internally. Open communication about one's own capacities.
And needs prevent misunderstandings and conflicts. Honestly stating what is possible...
Resilience protects one's mental equilibrium. At the same time, resilience also means regulating oneself.
to moderately challenge oneself in order to expand one's own resilience.

Mindfulness
Mindfulness is the protective framework around our mindset. It helps us to reflect-
to consciously perceive and deal with un-
to stay connected to our thoughts.
The first anchor point is gratitude – it focuses attention on what is already there: health, time, relationships, opportunities.
Possibilities. Or as Brendon Burchard put it: “Gratitude is the golden frame through which we can see the meaning of life.”
"Recognize bens." Through gratitude, ver-
The perspective shifts: from scarcity to abundance. This strengthens contentment, serenity, and emotional balance. Another aspect is openness – the willingness to embrace new perspectives and acknowledge one's own mistakes.
to recognize and remain tolerant. Openness is not a sign of weakness, but rather an expression of...
The pressure of internal security allows us to think flexibly and not in rigid, overly restrictive ways.
to linger over conceptions. And finally, empathy – the ability to perceive the experiences of other people without losing one's own balance. Empathy connects rationality with compassion. It reminds us that mental strength and humanity are not opposites. A mindful mindset therefore means being grateful, open, and empathetic – and at the same time acting rationally, resiliently, and autonomously. A strong mind-
Set is not a static state, but a living process: between reflection and action-
Lung, between stillness and movement, between you and your environment. Those who think mindfully, steer consciously – and those who steer consciously remain in balance.
We hope you found this post helpful and look forward to hearing your questions or feedback. See you soon at FIT VIII and take care!

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